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Warning Signs in Your Marriage That Predict a Divorce

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Every couple experiences occasional problems in their relationship. However, there are certain issues that could indicate divorce is imminent. Knowing the warning signs can help ensure you take the steps needed to protect yourself. 

Common Signs of Serious Problems in Your Marriage

Momentary flare-ups in marriage are common, as is the need to attend therapy for more complex issues. However, there are certain attitudes and behaviors that spell trouble and may indicate a divorce in your future. According to Women’s Health Magazine, common signs to be aware of include: 

  • Your spouse refuses to communicate. Being able to talk about issues in your marriage is key to resolving them. 
  • You spend a lot of your time alone. Without shared hobbies and interests, you are likely to feel isolated and alone in your marriage. 
  • You do not have shared goals for the future. Not wanting the same things in life is a common reason for divorce. 
  • There is a loss of intimacy. Sex is important in marriage but even if there are problems,  couples can generally overcome providing there are other types of intimacy, such as handholding, kissing, and snuggling together. 
  • There is a lack of trust. Unfortunately, once trust is violated in a marriage, it can be extremely hard to rebuild.  

Steps to Take Now to Protect Yourself

Getting a divorce is painful emotionally but there are practical matters to deal with as well. 

Under the Illinois Statutes, issues pertaining to money, property, and children must be resolved before a final divorce order can be issued. While you may eventually be able to overcome the above issues, you need to take steps now to protect yourself in the event divorce becomes imminent. These include: 

  • Make copies of all important documents: This includes personal identification cards, titles to property, and statements from financial accounts. 
  • Consider where you will live: Depending on the situation, you may want to remain in the marital home or begin over someplace else. 
  • Consider expenses and earning power: Calculate how much you will need to live on your own in the event of a divorce and whether your income will meet your costs. 
  • Gather evidence you may need in your case: If your spouse engages in any type of marital misconduct, this could entitle you to additional amounts in your divorce settlement. 

Consult With Our Chicago Divorce Attorneys Today

Decisions made both before and during your divorce can impact your financial security and overall well-being for years into the future. To protect yourself, reach out and call or contact our Chicago divorce attorneys online and request a no-obligation, confidential consultation today. 

There are many factors to consider when contemplating divorce, and a pre-divorce planning session can help you begin to plan for a divorce. Please contact the professionals at the Women’s Divorce & Family Law Group by calling (312) 585-6604 or clicking here to schedule a consultation.


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