Many women leave their divorce believing the hardest part is behind them. Then life changes. A job disappears, expenses climb, a child develops new needs, or a parenting schedule that once worked turns into a daily source of stress. If your divorce orders no longer match your reality, you may worry that you’re stuck with them forever.
You’re not. At the Women’s Divorce & Family Law Group of Colorado, LLP, we have spent years standing beside women during and after their divorces, helping them when life takes an unexpected turn.
The good news is that Colorado law allows certain divorce orders to be modified when:
If your current orders are creating more strain than stability, understanding your rights is the first step toward finding a solution that better supports you and your children.
Many people assume every part of a divorce decree is set in stone, while others believe everything can be revisited at any time. The truth sits somewhere in the middle.
Orders that may be modified include:
Orders that typically cannot be modified include:
Colorado courts place a high value on finality when it comes to property settlements. That’s why changing those provisions is extremely difficult, except in a few limited situations. Knowing the difference helps you focus your energy on the orders that the court can actually revisit.
After you confirm the court can revisit your order, you will need to demonstrate a substantial and continuing change in circumstances. Basically, this means Colorado courts will modify orders only for long-lasting changes that significantly affect your family or financial situation. They will not approve a modification for a temporary inconvenience or short-term hardship.
Some of the situations the courts consider substantial and continuous are:
For child support specifically, Colorado deems a change “substantial” only if it would alter the calculated support amount by at least 10%. Many women spend months trying to make an outdated order work before they realize their situation has fundamentally shifted. If any of these circumstances sound like what you’re experiencing, it may be time to look at your options.
Once you understand whether your situation qualifies, you will have to prove it. Colorado courts expect thorough documentation that shows both the change itself and its ongoing impact. Personal opinions carry far less weight than clear records.
Helpful evidence in modification cases often includes:
The stronger your documentation, the easier it becomes for the court to understand why a modification makes sense. Gathering these records early can save you time and stress later in the process.
The final steps in requesting a modification involve complying with any waiting periods and filing the official request with the court.
For parenting time and decision-making responsibilities, there is generally a two-year waiting period before a parent can seek a modification. Certain exceptions may apply in serious situations, but many parents must wait before asking the court to revisit these orders. Other orders, such as child support and maintenance, generally do not have the same waiting period; you may be able to seek a modification sooner.
To request a modification, you will typically need to file the appropriate paperwork with the court that issued your original orders. The forms required depend on both the type of order you want to change and whether you and the other party agree to the proposed modification. When both parties agree, the process may involve filing a stipulation. When there is disagreement, a formal motion asking the court to approve the change is usually required.
No matter which path applies to your situation, remember that your current order remains in effect until a judge signs a new one. Continuing to follow the existing order while pursuing a modification can help you avoid additional legal complications.
If your life has changed since your divorce, you don’t have to keep living under court orders that no longer work for you and your children. Colorado law lets you seek a modification when you can show a substantial and continuing change in circumstances, support it with solid evidence, and follow the proper filing steps.
The attorneys at the Women’s Divorce & Family Law Group of Colorado, LLP are here to help. We’ll review your current orders, explain your options in plain language, gather the documentation your case needs, and advocate for changes that reflect your family’s reality. Reach out to our team to talk through your situation and find a path that fits your life today.