{"id":131,"date":"2016-07-29T12:23:00","date_gmt":"2016-07-29T17:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/?page_id=131"},"modified":"2026-07-31T11:59:37","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T16:59:37","slug":"custody-visitation-parental-responsibilities","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/custody-visitation-parental-responsibilities\/","title":{"rendered":"Custody, Visitation &#038; Parental Responsibilities"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"container\">\n<h1>Custody, Visitation &amp; Parental Responsibilities Attorneys in Chicago<\/h1>\n<div class=\"sipra-cntnt\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many mothers stay in unhappy situations far longer than they should, not because they don&#8217;t realize something needs to change, but because they&#8217;re concerned for their children. Many mothers worry that ending a marriage or taking legal action will disrupt their children&#8217;s lives, affect their routines, or change the relationship they&#8217;ve worked so hard to build.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Women&#8217;s Divorce &amp; Family Law Group by Haid and Teich LLP, we understand the difficult pull mothers face between their children and their own happiness. That&#8217;s why <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/family\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">helping women through family law challenges<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has been our focus for more than a decade. The truth is that legal action doesn&#8217;t have to mean instability for your children. Well-planned parenting arrangements and the right legal strategy can allow you to build a healthier future, while your children continue to receive the love, support, and structure they need.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>A Law Firm Dedicated to Mothers in Child Custody Matters<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We work with women at every stage of custody and parenting disputes, including:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/chicago-divorce-lawyers\/\"><b>Mothers going through divorce<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who are worried about where their children will live, how parenting time will be divided, and how major decisions regarding their children&#8217;s upbringing will be made.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/custody-without-marriage\/\"><b>Single mothers seeking custody<\/b><\/a><b> orders for the first time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who need legally enforceable arrangements covering parental responsibilities, parenting time, paternity, and child support.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Mothers <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/orders-protection\/\"><b>concerned for their children&#8217;s safety<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> due to a co-parent&#8217;s substance abuse, neglect, domestic violence, inappropriate living conditions, or other circumstances that may place a child&#8217;s well-being at risk.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Mothers dealing with significant life changes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, including relocation, remarriage, changes in employment, shifting parenting responsibilities, or other developments that require <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/divorce-custody-agreements\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">modifying an existing order<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Mothers struggling with a co-parent who refuses to follow court orders<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> regarding parenting time, decision-making responsibilities, communication, or child support obligations.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Mothers involved in highly contested custody cases<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> where parents disagree about parenting schedules, school selection, healthcare decisions, extracurricular activities, religious upbringing, or other important issues affecting a child&#8217;s future.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All these women share a deep desire to protect their children and an uncertainty about how to do so. We give them the answers they need.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>How Custody Works in Illinois Today<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many mothers enter the custody process believing that courts still approach parenting matters the way they did decades ago. In the past, it was common for mothers to receive <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/sole-custody-and-visitation-rights\/\">primary physical custody<\/a> while fathers exercised visitation on weekends or according to a limited schedule. That is no longer how it works.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today, Illinois law no longer uses the traditional terms &#8220;custody&#8221; and &#8220;visitation&#8221; at all. Instead, the law now focuses on two distinct concepts: allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Parental responsibilities<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> refer to the authority to make significant decisions about your child&#8217;s life, including their education, healthcare, religious instruction, and extracurricular activities. A court can share these responsibilities between both parents or assign them primarily to one parent, depending on the family&#8217;s circumstances.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Parenting time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the actual hours each parent spends caring for the child and making routine, day-to-day decisions.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For mothers, this change means it is more important than ever to understand your rights, your role in the process, and how a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/how-is-child-custody-decided-in-illinois\/\">court will make parenting decisions<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Creating Your Parenting Plan<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Illinois courts require parents to submit a detailed parenting plan outlining how parental responsibilities and parenting time will be divided. This document serves as the practical framework for your family going forward. A well-structured parenting plan reduces confusion, minimizes conflict between parents, and gives your children the consistency and stability they need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you and the other parent can reach a mutual agreement, the court will typically approve it, provided it meets the child&#8217;s best interests. If an agreement cannot be reached, a judge will resolve the dispute. In that case, the court may determine that both parents <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/in-parenting-plans-who-has-authority-to-make-decisions-for-your-child\/\">share major decision-making authority<\/a> equally, or may assign specific responsibilities to one parent based on what the child actually needs and what the family&#8217;s history shows.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>The Best Interests of the Child Standard<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every custody decision in Illinois centers on the best interests of the child. When a judge must decide, they consider:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each parent&#8217;s wishes and concerns<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your child&#8217;s own preferences, depending on their age and maturity<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your child&#8217;s specific needs and circumstances<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The mental and physical health of all family members<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each parent&#8217;s willingness to cooperate with the other<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each parent&#8217;s commitment to supporting the child&#8217;s relationship with the other parent<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The distance between the parents&#8217; homes<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Any history of domestic violence or abuse<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For mothers who have served as a child&#8217;s primary caregiver, understanding how these factors apply to your family&#8217;s circumstances is critical.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Why Trust Women&#8217;s Divorce and Family Law Group to Stand Up for Your Children?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who you trust for your legal representation will directly impact the relationship you have with your children moving forward. Mothers throughout the Chicago area turn to Women&#8217;s Divorce &amp; Family Law Group because helping women protect those relationships has been the focus of our practice from the very beginning. We:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Understand how custody cases affect everyday life.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Parenting plans influence everything from school schedules and medical decisions to holidays, extracurricular activities, and the daily routines children rely on. We help mothers create arrangements that reflect the realities of their family&#8217;s lives.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Tailor every strategy to the family in front of us.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Some mothers need help reaching a practical parenting agreement. Others are facing contested custody disputes involving relocation, safety concerns, decision-making authority, or parenting time. We adapt our approach to your specific circumstances and goals.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Are prepared for difficult custody disputes.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> While many cases can be resolved through negotiation or mediation, we are fully prepared to advocate for mothers in court when important issues involving their children cannot be resolved through agreement.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Have earned recognition throughout the legal community.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Our attorneys have been recognized by Super Lawyers from 2016 through 2025, named a Top 10 Family Law Firm by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, and featured in O, The Oprah Magazine and ELLE Magazine.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Protect What Matters Most<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your concern for your children makes you a great mother, and you deserve a legal team that matches your dedication. At The Women&#8217;s Divorce &amp; Family Law Group, our Chicago child custody attorneys explain Illinois&#8217; laws so you can focus your attention on your children while still doing what&#8217;s necessary for your own well-being. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/contact-us\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reach out so we can help you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> protect your most precious priority.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2>FAQS About Child Custody in Illinois<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Custody, Visitation &amp; Parental Responsibilities Attorneys in Chicago Many mothers stay in unhappy situations far longer than they should, not because they don&#8217;t realize something needs to change, but because they&#8217;re concerned for their children. Many mothers worry that ending a marriage or taking legal action will disrupt their children&#8217;s lives, affect their routines, or &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/family-law\/custody-visitation-parental-responsibilities\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Custody, Visitation &#038; Parental Responsibilities&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":5035,"parent":8,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_oasis_is_in_workflow":0,"_oasis_original":0,"_oasis_task_priority":"2normal","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-131","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","entry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=131"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/131\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7578,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/131\/revisions\/7578"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/8"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.womensfamilylawyers.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}